Consult your heart even if others give you a religious ruling.
"Consult your heart. Righteousness is that about which the soul feels at ease and the heart tranquil. And wrongdoing is that which wavers in the soul and causes uneasiness in the breast even though people have repeatedly given their legal opinion in its favor."
And he said:
"Righteousness is in good character and wrongdoing is that which wavers in your soul, and which you dislike people finding about."
"Righteousness is in good character. It is not in the number of prayers you perform, nor in the length of your beard. It is in your behavior."
~Hadith of Nawawi~